This is one of the most basic and most popular positions around, with the woman sitting on top of the man.

STEP 1

Man’s Position

The man lies flat on his back and stretches out his legs.

STEP 2

Woman’s Position

His partner should stand or kneel on top of him and plant her legs on the side of his hips. The woman then lowers her body until she is sitting on him, with his penis penetrating her vagina.

STEP 3

Instruction for Penetration

From the kneeling position, the woman can draw her legs forward and place her feet flat on the surface, on the man’s sides. She should draw her legs as close to his waist or chest as possible.

STEP 4

Instruction for Movement

Thrusting is primarily done by the woman, who controls her lower body and legs to bring herself up and down her partner’s penis. Aside from moving her body up and down, the woman can also grind her hips in circles and contract her vaginal muscles to add to her partner’s sensation.

TIPS

• The Top position affords a visually stimulating view for the man because he can see his partner’s vagina going up and down his genitals. To make this more visually arousing for the man, he can rest his head on one arm to get a better view of the woman enjoying herself on top of him. He can also add to his partner’s sensations by caressing her breasts and massaging her clit while she is above him. This position is perfect for women in very dominant mood. Not only can she control the length and speed of the thrusts, she can also prolong and delay the man’s orgasm by firmly squeezing the spot above his scrotum.

WARNING

• This is not recommended for men who prefer to be in control of the action.

TOP POSITION WITH LIBERATOR SHAPES