The Tongs position is just like the other woman-on-top positions, with a slight twist.
The man lies on his back comfortably and spreads out his legs with his knees bent a little.
His partner positions herself above him and place her feet on either side of his hips. Just like the Top and the Rider, the woman is the one doing the thrusting, in which she lowers her body and impales herself on the man’s penis.
Instruction for Penetration
While on the sitting position, she can either push herself up and down the penis, or grind her hips in circular motion, or do a side to side motion for the penis to hit both sides of her vaginal wall.
Instruction for Movement
The difference of the Tongs position from the basic woman-on-top position is that there is a slight tilt in the man’s thighs, which provides a pleasurable angle for the man’s pelvic bone to stimulate the woman’s clitoris.
- This position is perfect for a woman to dominate her partner. She will control the depth, angle and speed of the thrusting.
- The man can heighten her pleasure by reaching out his hands to massage the woman’s breasts and play with her nipples. He can also stimulate her clitoris as well.
- The Tongs position also provides a chance for emotional or psychological connection, for the partners can hold hands and look into each other’s eyes while on the brink of orgasm.
- This position is also a great primer for an anal entry, but both partners should discuss if they are open enough to attempt anal sex, given the moral and cultural issues attached to it.