Butterfly Position
Sexual positions are designed to make the sexual experience very satisfying for both partners. There are positions that allow each partner to be in control of the act. With the butterfly sex position, the woman has the upper hand in the sex encounter.
STEP 1
Man’s Position
With butterfly, the man can begin by sitting with his legs slightly spread apart. His hands are placed behind him which will serve as a support when he leans back.
STEP 2
Woman’s Position
With the man in his slightly outspread position, the woman can drop down slowly on his lap in a sitting position.
STEP 3
Instruction for Penetration
As the woman drops down upon the man’s lap, she can guide the penis to enter the vagina slowly until full penetration is achieved.
STEP 4
Instruction for Movement
Once there is penetration, the woman can now lean backward also using her hands to support her upper body weight. At this point, she should be the mirror image of the man, position-wise. When they are both in a comfortable position, the woman can start doing the “rocking” motion to facilitate the thrusting. Both partners can do this either in synchronized motion or alternate.
TIPS
- Since the woman is mostly in control, she can rotate her hips or raise and lower herself upon the penis for fantastic sensation all over the body. Also, both partners can enjoy the visual stimulation upon each movement.
WARNINGS
- The rocking and thrusting motion in the butterfly position can be very enjoyable, but the penetration is not as hard and deep as partners would get from other positions. Forcing it can cause a bit of discomfort.

