The Chinese Tantric texts give all the positions that we have so far looked at but really only divide positions into four kinds; man on top, woman on top, couple side by side (and face to face), and man from behind. They called these ‘Yang Superior’, ‘Yin Superior’, ‘Intimate Attachment’ and ‘Fish Sunning Itself’.

They suggested that lovemaking should be fluid and versatile; there being no set positions – the lovers just move smoothly from one position to the next without there being any moment when they could be said to be in any one position.

The Taoists also recognized the fact that all people, all couples, are physically different and that what one couple can do another may not physically be able to manage, and that there might be false expectations or disappointment if someone couldn’t manage something; they might feel that they had somehow ‘failed’.

The Taoist Positions

The Tao of Loving does describe twenty-six basic positions all of which we have covered; but the Taoists had such interesting names for their positions it’s worth looking at a few.

A Phoenix Plays In A Red Cave

The woman, Lady Yin, lies on her back and holds her legs upright with her hands and Lord Yang enters her.

Bamboo Near The Alter

The couple faces each other standing up – Intimate Attachment – and the man enters the woman. They can grip on to wherever they feel comfortable.

The Springing White Tiger

The woman kneels forwards and the man kneels behind her. He enters her and she should drop forwards so that her head is touching the ground.

Flying Birds On A Dark Sea

The woman lies on a raised platform or bed with her legs over the side. The man stands and enters her and holds her legs up.
A variation on this is the Flying Seagull where the couch or bed is much lower and the man kneels.

Dragon Faces The Mountain

The man sits in a chair, the woman, in his lap with her back to him.

The Taoist Names

Some of the Taoist terminology is wonderful – we have the ‘Jade Hammer’, the ‘Heavenly Dragon Stem’, the ‘Red Phoenix’, and the ‘Coral Stalk’ for penis. The ‘Jade Pavilion’ and ‘Palace’, the ‘Open Lotus Flower’, and the ‘Red Valley’ are for the vulva. The clitoris is the ‘Jade Pearl’ and the ‘Golden Jewel of the Jade Palace’. Sex is ‘Mist on the Mountains of Wu’, and the ‘Meeting of the Dragon and the Unicorn’ or even just the ‘Clouds and the Rain’. And an orgasm is the ‘Bursting of the Clouds’.

Manner Of The First

The woman lies down on her back with her thighs raised. The man kneels between her legs and ‘introduces his member into her’. He presses his toes into the ground and can then ‘rummage her in a convenient, measured way. This position is said to be gentle for the woman whose partner has a ‘long measure’.

Manner Of The Second

The woman lies on her back and lifts her legs into the air and brings her legs as near her head as she can. The man then kneels and enters her. This position is said to be good if the man has a ’short measure’ as it will afford the woman a degree of satisfaction.

Manner Of The third

The woman lies down and the man enters her from the kneeling position. She raises one leg only over his shoulder. This position will enable the couple to enjoy really deep penetration.

Manner Of The fourth

The woman lies down and the man enters her from the kneeling position. He then raises her legs up so that they are over his shoulders and he can grip her thighs as he thrusts deeply.

Manner Of The Fifth

Both partners lie down on their sides, facing each other. This position is good for generating feelings of warmth and love; it is very intimate.

Manner Of The Sixth

The woman kneels on all fours and then lowers her head to the ground. The man kneels behind her and enters her.

Manner Of The Seventh

The woman lies on her side and the man squats between her thighs with one of her legs on his shoulders and the other between his thighs. The man can then draw her to him by using his hands.

Manner Of The Eighth

The woman lies down on her back with her legs crossed at the knees. The man sits astride her like ‘a cavalier on horseback’ and, being on his knees, can ‘put his member into her’.

The manner Of The Ninth

The woman kneels forward being propped up on a bed or raised couch. The man kneels behind her and enters her from behind. The man can keep his legs either side of hers.

Manner Of The Tenth

The woman half lies on a low couch so that the bottom half of her body is unsupported. The man kneels in front of her and enters her. She can then use her legs around his waist to support her and he can lean forwards and grip the low couch for support.

Manner Of The Eleventh

The woman lies down on her back with a cushion under her buttocks. The man lies astride her and enters her. She should then cross her ankles over just behind and below his knees – or she can get her feet to meet together, sole to sole.

The Twenty Five Superior Indian Lovemaking Positions

The Perfumed Garden then goes on to describe the twenty-five positions of Indian lovemaking which it claims are superior to the Arabic tradition. It also warns that these shouldn’t be tried by ill or unfit couples.

The Stopperage

The woman lies on her back with a cushion under her buttocks and the man enters her from the front. He should keep his legs outstretched and she should bend her legs up so that her knees are on his chest. The Perfumed Garden says this position can be uncomfortable for the woman and should only really be tried if the man’s member is short or soft.

Frog Fashion

The woman lies on her back with her knees raised but her feet flat on the floor. The man sits with his legs around her sides. He enters her and holds on with his hands to her shoulders. Her knees should be under the man’s armpits.

With The Toes Cramped

The woman lies on her back and the man kneels and enters her from the front. He should then grip with his toes and pull her up off the ground so that her buttocks can swing freely on to the front of his thighs. Her legs can then cross behind his back and he can grip her neck with his hands.

With Legs In The Air

The woman lies on her back and the man kneels and enters her from the front. Her legs should then be supported on his shoulders and he can lean forwards.

He Goat Fashion

The woman crouches on her side and she stretches out the leg that is underneath. The man squats down between her thighs with his calves bent under him. He then lifts her uppermost leg so that it rests on his back and enters her. During this position he can take hold of the woman by her shoulders for extra leverage.

The Screw Of Archimedes

The man lies down on his back and the woman sits on him, facing him. She should then lean forwards and take her weight on her arms, positioned either side of his head. She can then slide up and down his member and, if he is agile, he can assist her by moving as well.

The Somersault

This position is really only for the very supple and very agile. The woman lies on her back with her legs up, one foot placed either side of her head and the man lies along her and enters her. It’s called the somersault because it was originally recommended that to get into this position the woman should wear a pair of "pantaloons" that she should drop so that they fit around her ankles. She should then bend forwards and put her head in them and the man should then seize her legs and somersault her into this position.

The Tail Of The Ostrich

The woman lies on her back and the man kneels in front of her and lifts up her legs until only her head and shoulders remain in contact with the ground. He then enters her, from behind, and straightens his back so that he is kneeling upright. She can then cross her ankles behind his head.

Fitting On Of The Sock

The man kneels down and the woman lies with her legs open and either side of his waist. He can lean back on his calves. He should then be able to use his member to stimulate the area around her vulva. In this position he can use his fingers to stimulate her clitoris as well.

The Perfumed Garden says that: when her vulva gets moistened with the liquid emitted from his verge she is thus amply prepared for enjoyment by the alternate coming and going of your weapon in her scabbard; put it into her in full length.

Reciprocal Sight Of The Posteriors

The man lies stretched out on his back and the woman sits down on his member with her back to him. He can press the outside of her thighs between his thighs and legs while she places her hands on the ground as a support.

The Rainbow Arch

The woman lies on her side with one leg raised. The man lies also on his side with his face towards her back. He then enters her and keeps his hands on her back. She can then reach forwards and grip his feet and bring them forwards towards her front forming him into an arch.

The Alternate Movement Of Piercing

The man sits with his legs outstretched and the woman sits facing him in his lap. He then draws his legs up under her thighs and she grips his back with her legs. He should hold her round the waist and she can support herself by leaning back on her arms. All he has to do then is move his feet together to provide all the movement and friction they will require.

Pounding On The Spot

The same basic position as the Alternate Movement of Piercing except the man keeps his legs stretched out and the woman grips him tighter round the back.

Coitus From The Back

The woman lies face down and the man enters her from behind. He should keep his legs outstretched and inside hers. She should place a cushion or pillow under her so that her buttocks are raised.

Belly To Belly

The couple stands facing each other. He brings one leg forwards and she raises one leg. He should then be able to enter her quite easily. Both the partners should have their arms around each other’s hips.

After The Fashion Of The Ram

The woman is on her knees with her forearms on the ground. The man kneels behind her and enters her and places his hands on her shoulders.

Driving The Peg Home

The woman leans back against a wall and the man enters her from the front. She takes her weight on her back and raises her legs, which she should lock around the back of his thighs. She can give herself additional support by holding on to his shoulders. He can then ‘drive the peg home’.

Loves Fusion

While the woman is lying on her right side, the man should lie on his left with his left leg extended. The man’s right leg should be raised until it is up to her flank when he then places her upper leg on his side. The Perfumed Garden then says ‘after having introduced your member you move as you please, and she responds to your action as she pleases.’

Coitus Of The Sheep

The woman is on her hands and knees; the man, behind her, lifts her thighs until her vulva is on a level with his member, which he then inserts. In this position she ought to place her head between her arms.

Interchange In Coition

The man lies on his back. The woman, gliding in between his legs, places herself upon him with her toe nails against the ground. She lifts up the man’s thighs so he can enter her. She can then take her weight on her hands, which she places, either side of the man’s body. The Perfumed Garden says this is an exact opposite of our traditional ‘missionary position’ and that a variation is for the woman to kneel with her legs under her but between his legs.

The Race Of The Member

The man, on his back, supports himself with a cushion under his shoulders but with his buttocks on whatever is underneath him. He then draws up his thighs until his knees are on a level with his face.

The woman then sits on him, "impaling herself on his member" she must not lie down but keep seated as if on horseback, the saddle being represented by the knees and the stomach of the man’. All she has to do then is jog up and down by flexing her knees to bring them both to orgasm.

The Fitter In

The man sits with his legs apart and the woman sits between them. He enters her and they grip each other’s elbows or forearms. Her legs should be around his waist and all four feet should be on the ground. They can then rock gently back and forth.

The One Who Stops At Home

The woman lies down on her back with her shoulders and upper back supported by cushions. She arches her back and brings her feet back so that her knees are raised. She opens her legs and the man can half-kneel and enter her. She then raises and drops her buttock to provide excitement and friction, but the man has to follow her movements or his member will become dislodged – he has to ’stick like glue to her’.

The Coition Of The Blacksmith

The woman lies on her back with a cushion under her buttocks and her knees raised as far as possible towards her chest so that her vulva stands out as a target. She then guides her partner’s member in. He then: executes for some time coition in the usual manner then draws his tool out of the vulva, and glides it for a moment between the thighs of the woman, as the smith withdraws the glowing iron from the furnace in order to plunge it into cold water.

The Seducer

The woman lies on her back, the man sits between her legs. She can then draw her legs up around his shoulders and guide his member in. She can clasp her legs around his waist if that is more comfortable.

The Large Bee Position

The woman sits astride the man, with his lingam entered into her yoni. She closes her legs in front of her and grasps his lingam tightly. She can then lean back and take her own weight on her arms – even gripping his ankles with her hands if she wants to and it feels comfortable. She can then begin a series of twisting movements from the waist down – this is the large bee. The advice given in the Tantric text is that she shouldn’t be too aggressive or masculine in her movements as it will upset her partner’s ego. However, modern lovers shouldn’t have to worry too much about that and the woman can let go to all her desires at this stage. Most women find this position extremely comfortable and they can maintain it for quite a long time.

The woman may like to experiment by moving her legs forwards or backwards until the optimum position for comfort and friction is found. Basically the man has to lie back and enjoy his partner doing all the work. As a man you might like to thrust your hips upwards at the same time as your partner moves her waist from side to side. The man can caress his partner’s breasts and she can stimulate her clitoris at the same time. If the simultaneous orgasm is important to you both then this is probably the best position to achieve it. The woman can bring herself to clitoral orgasm at the same time as the man ejaculates and she should be able to control the speed and pace much more sensitively in this position. If the woman has mastered the yonic squeeze technique (PC muscle) then she may well be able to bring her partner to orgasm without moving any part of her body except the yoni.

Let’s begin by looking at the Kama Sutra. This ancient Hindu text suggests that there are sixty-four different lovemaking positions, but on close inspection it turns out that there are only twenty-three with each having many variations depending on how deep the lingam (penis) is thrust into the yoni (vulva) or the manner in which it is moved. The Kama Sutra also deals in some depth with oral sex, which we will look at later.

Positions With The Man Behind

Congress Of The Cow

The word congress is used in the Kama Sutra for "intercourse" or, more properly "meeting". In the Congress of the Cow the couple should have sex in the manner brought to mind by the title of this position. The woman stands upright and bends forward until her hands touch the ground. The man then enters her from behind and clasps her around the waist much as a bull would mount a cow. In this position he can also stimulate her clitoris and his pelvic bone will be able to stimulate the area around her buttocks and perineum.

The Congress Of The Elephant

This is not quite so obvious from its title, however the woman lies face down and the man enters her from behind with his legs outside hers. He should support his weight on his arms. The woman, by pressing her thighs tightly together, should be able to provide extra friction for the man if required.

Positions With The Couple Standing Up

The Congress Of The Vine (or The Supported Congress)

The couple has sex standing up with the man leaning back against a wall for support. The woman should entwine her legs around the back of the man’s thighs. It’s probably best if she tries this with only one leg at a time unless he is very strong or she is very athletic. If either of the couple is of very different heights the man should bend his knees and keep his legs apart so he can lower himself to the woman’s level.

The Congress Of The Monkey (or The Suspended Congress)

The man leans back against a wall for support and the woman clasps him around the neck. If he bends his knees she will be able to grip the back of his thighs with her heels and use her toes against the wall for extra thrust. The man should grip the woman around her upper thighs to support her. Both this position and the preceding one need some strength and practice but are good for spontaneous sex and indulging in erotic kissing.

Positions With The Woman On Top

The Pair Of Tongs

The man lies down and the woman sits astride him, facing him, with her knees bent back. There need be no thrusting if the woman has practiced her PC muscle exercises; she can just gently squeeze his lingam. The man, in this position, can caress the woman’s breasts and she can stimulate her own clitoris – or the man can.

The Spinning Top

Here the couple begins as the Pair of Tongs but the woman slowly, and carefully, swivels around until she is facing away from the man. This one is both difficult, and potentially painful for the man. Take great care. The woman can swivel back again into the Pair of Tongs.

The Swing

The man sits half upright and the woman sits in his lap facing away from him. She should support her weight by gripping his ankles and the man should support his own weight by propping himself up on his arms. In this position the woman can, as the name suggests, swing herself backwards and forwards, or even from side to side.

The Congress Of The Mare

The woman sits as in The Swing, in the man’s lap while he is sitting half upright. Instead of leaning forwards she leans back. The man should take his weight on his arms. This should leave the woman free to stimulate her clitoris and the man can kiss her neck and shoulders.

The Woman Sitting Astride The Man

Maybe a better suggestion than the Spinning Top is to get into a position where the woman sits astride the man, facing away, and inserts his lingam into her yoni.

If the woman grips her partner’s ankles she can then exert considerable pressure and friction on his lingam while still maintaining control. Some women find the Spinning Top quite tiring and some men find it painful because the woman’s weight on his upper thighs can be restrictive. However, it is a fun position to try and can be very stimulating. The Kama Sutra recommends it for couples who have been together for a long time as each, being unable to see the face of their partner, can fantasize that they are making love to a stranger – or someone else they desire.

The Kama Sutra says: Though a woman is reserved, and keeps her feelings hidden, when she mounts her man from above she can show all her love and desire, and from her actions a man should be able to tell what disposition she is in and in what way she likes to be enjoyed.

Positions With The Man On Top

The Widely Opened Congress

The couple starts in the classic ‘man on top’ position with the woman’s knees outside his thighs. She should then arch her back and he should support his weight on his knees and arms. The woman’s buttocks should not be in contact with whatever is underneath her. The woman, by opening her legs as wide as possible, should be able to enjoy very deep penetration and good stimulation of her clitoris by the man’s pelvic region.

The Yawning Congress

The woman lies down and raises and opens her legs as wide as possible. The man kneels between her legs and enters her. The couple should clasp hands to support each other’s weight. The woman’s inner thighs should grip around the man’s waist.

The Highest Yawning Congress

The couple should take up the Yawning Congress and then the woman should bring her knees forwards to rest on her breasts. The man can then straighten out his legs and take his weight on his arms. The woman can rest her feet on his shoulders. This position provides the deepest penetration.

The Congress Of The Consort Of Indra

Indra was the Hindu god of Thunder and this may have been his favorite position – or that of his consort or wife. The woman lies down on her back and brings her knees together tightly on her breasts. The man kneels and enters her. She can then rest her feet on his stomach while he grips the back of her thighs or, in this position, he can stimulate her clitoris extremely well. For added tension she can grip her shins and pull her knees even more tightly against her breasts.

The Clasping Position

The woman lies down and the man enters her by lying on top of her. She entwines her legs with his and their arms also entwine. This position doesn’t allow for much movement but it is a very intimate warm embrace.

The Side Clasping Position

The couple lies on their sides facing each other. The woman lifts one leg to allow the man to enter her. They can entwine legs and arms or use their hands to caress each other.

The Twinning Congress

The couple adopts the classic ‘man on top’ position. The woman should bring one leg around the back of her partner’s thighs and draw him closer to her. At the same time she should clasp him around the neck and draw his head down to hers.

The Pressing Congress

The same as the Twinning Congress but the woman uses both her legs to press even harder against the man’s thighs. Her feet should grip quite hard behind his knees.

The Rising Congress

The woman should lie down on her back and draw her knees up to her breasts. The man kneels and enters her. He should then grip her legs and bring them up so that her feet are on his shoulders. He will need to open his thighs quite wide to enable him to penetrate her deeply. This position is quite tiring for the man although it does afford the woman considerable pleasure due to its deep penetration.

The Pressed Congress

This position is very similar to the Congress of the Consort of Indra, but instead of the woman gripping her legs tightly to her she can relax her knees. The man can caress her feet and she can stroke his thighs.

The Half Pressed Congress

The woman can relax one leg completely by stretching it out behind her partner. This lets him have access to her clitoris, which he can then stimulate with his fingers.

The Nailed Half Pressed Congress

From the previous position the woman can take the foot that is on the man’s chest and lift her leg completely into the air. At the same time the man should extend one leg behind him.

The Congress Of The Crab

The woman lies on her back with her legs widely apart and her knees drawn up. The man kneels and enters her. He clasps her knees to his chest. She can then let her legs down and draw them up again. If she does this quickly and smoothly he will gain a lot of pleasure from the tightening and relaxing of her yoni.

The Lotus Congress

Not even to be attempted unless you are both very supple and energetic. The woman lies on her back with her knees drawn up so that she is in the full lotus position but lying down. The man enters her by crouching over her on all fours. You were warned you had to be supple and energetic!

The Bamboo Congress

The man enters the woman who is lying on her back. He extends one leg behind him and she brings one leg up so that her foot is resting on his shoulder – this should be the opposite leg to the one he has extended. By alternately raising and lowering a leg in the woman’s case, or bringing one back and forth in the man’s case, they can bring themselves to orgasm. This position is supposed to resemble bamboo being split. It’s not easy and only really included so you can try it for fun.

Movements Of The Lingam (Penis)

Once the twenty-three positions are learnt, or even during the learning process, the man can also learn how to move his penis to afford the woman maximum satisfaction. The Kama Sutra is very clear in its advice to men – your role is to satisfy the woman; unless you learn to be a patient, sympathetic and considerate lover you cannot attain the true Tantra.

Movements of the Lingam During Lovemaking

The Moving Forward

The Lingam is inserted into the Yoni in a straightforward manner and pushed fully home.

The Sporting Of The Sparrow

The lingam is moved in and out rapidly in tiny movements like a sparrow.

The Blows Of The Bull And Bear

The lingam is rubbed against the side of the vaginal walls.

The Giving Of A Blow

The lingam is used to strike the outside of the yoni – especially effective if struck against the clitoris.

The Pressing

The lingam is used to rub hard against the outside of the yoni – again it works well if the clitoris is stimulated by the lingam.

The Rubbing

The lingam is inserted and pushed hard against the ‘bottom’ of the yoni – the vaginal wall on the opposite side to the clitoris.

The Piercing

This is the same as the Rubbing except the lingam is rubbed hard against the ‘top’ of the yoni – the vaginal wall where the G-spot is situated.

The Churning

The lingam is used inside the yoni and is ‘churned’ about, rubbing against the vaginal walls.

You might like to experiment with your own variations of these -and invent names for them.

Oral Sex

The Kama Sutra gives advice to a man on how to give oral sex to a woman – it says the man should follow the same advice as for kissing. Perhaps you’d better start learning, if you’ve not been practising erotic kissing. There are many publications devoted to the art of oral sex, a very important aspect of a good sexual rapport, sadly very few men bother in any detail with this subject.

For the woman there is also helpful advice about oral sex. The Kama Sutra suggests that there is an eight-fold path to Auparishlaka or mouth-congress:

Nominal Congress

The lingam is caressed by the woman’s mouth.

Biting the Sides

The lingam is held by the woman and her teeth can gently nibble along the sides.

Outside Pressing

The head of the lingam is sucked gently by the woman’s lips.

Inside Pressing

The whole of the lingam is inserted into the woman’s mouth and she gives long deep sucks with her whole mouth.

The Kissing

The lingam is kissed all over by the woman.

Tongueing

The lingam is fiercely licked all over by the woman’s tongue.

Sucking the Mango Fruit

About half of the lingam is inserted into the woman’s mouth and she should suck hard in the same manner as the Inside Pressing.

Swallowing Up

The whole of the lingam is taken into the mouth and throat and sucked hard with a deep swallow motion.

The Congress Of The Crow

If the couple wants to engage in mutual oral sex they should adopt The Congress of the Crow. This equates with the classic ‘69′ position of Western sex practices. Here the couple can engage in mutual caressing of the genitals in comfort.

STEP 1

Woman’s Position

The woman should first lie down on a comfortable surface. The man must do the same but his head should be on the opposite direction from the woman’s. Their genital areas must be level with each other while they are lying side by side.

STEP 2

Man’s Position

Both partners must keep the same leg (either left or right) down and straight and bend their other legs, which they must lift and bend over each other’s straight leg. As a result, the foot that crossed over should be positioned near the waist of sexual partner.

STEP 3

Instruction for Penetration

Each partner would have the other one’s bent leg between his or her legs.

STEP 4

Instruction for Movement

The couple could use their bent legs to apply pressure once the penetration of the man’s penis into the woman’s vagina starts.

TIPS

• To achieve the Great Aperture to its best effect, the couple should try to use the sandwich effect while the man is thrusting. The woman could clench the muscles of her genital area to avoid the penis from slipping out. This will give the man’s penis a truly sensual experience and in turn, the woman’s clitoris will be equally stimulated.

WARNINGS

• The penis might be withdrawn from the vagina at some point while doing the Great Aperture position especially if the thrusting becomes too vigorous. The couple could keep their genital areas as close to each other as possible to prevent this from happening.

In general, sex is an enjoyable act between two people who are in an intimate relationship. What you may not realize is that it can also be a bit of a hard work if you and your partner intend to get the most out of it. In fact, there are various sexual positions designed to make sex as satisfying as possible, regardless of any physical limitations. One of these positions is called Kama’s Wheel. This is perhaps one of the easiest and most comfortable positions, but very erotic nonetheless.

STEP 1

Man’s Position

In Kama’s Wheel, the man does not do much of the work as he just needs to sit upright with his legs spread apart and straight out.

STEP 2

Woman’s Position

The woman will play the part of a “tease” as she stands in front of the man and slowly slides her body down against him until she is in a sitting position facing him. The sliding down motion prepares both partners for the sitting position that will be ideal for penetration.

STEP 3

Instructions for Penetration

When both partners are in sitting position, the woman’s leg needs to be moved forward. This gives her enough room to lean forward and backward in rocking motion to let the penis penetrate the vagina.

STEP 4

Instructions for Movement

Given the man’s flat placement and the woman’s balancing position, the penetration is at regular intervals depending on the woman’s rocking motion.

TIPS

• As partners are facing each other, they can have the opportunity to kiss, lick, or suck on the neck, lips, face, or easily accessible erogenous zones. This can be good to build up the anticipation for the climax.

WARNINGS

• The position is quite restrictive, so both partners should not try to do anything that will deviate from the position to avoid any discomfort.

KAMA’S WHEEL USING LIBERATOR SHAPES

The Lotus position is as sensual as the sex position it represents.

STEP 1

Man’s Position

The man sits upright with his legs crossed

STEP 2

Woman’s Position

The woman seductively positions herself in front of him and lowers herself on her lap in a downward direction.

STEP 3

Instruction for Penetration

Her feet as of the moment is placed flat on the bed or ground and she initiates penetration since she is the one bringing herself down on his lap and exposed penis.

STEP 4

Instruction for Movement

Here, thrusting can take place immediately with all kinds of sexually arousing elements to heighten the pleasure such as kissing, fondling, etc.

TIPS

• This position, just like others that involve sitting, gives the couple a chance to fondle, kiss, and embrace as much as they want to increase stimulation and arousal.
• The women can also have a subtle amount of control and freedom to move at her own pace that can enhance the experience of both her and her partner’s.
• A great tip that could make the Lotus position even more pleasurable is to touch every part of your partner’s inner and outer genital areas.  The men can caress their partner’s breasts, clitoral area, and other sensitive parts of her body to heighten her sensations.  The women can also do the same or move upward and downward on their partner’s penis to give them something to enjoy visually and through sensations.

WARNINGS

• There’s really not much to worry about with the Lotus position.  The only thing that could probably get in the way is too much foreplay, which I doubt would be a negative thing for both partners.

LOTUS POSITION WITH LIBERATOR SHAPES

The magpie position is common for couples although it is not popularly known by its name. It is quite rare though, in the sense that it is done with the man sitting.  Also, in this position, it is the woman who does majority of the movement.

STEP 1

Man’s Position

The man assumes a sitting position in an armless chair or in any surface with no arms or side.

STEP 2

Woman’s Position

The woman positions her legs to either side while she sits on his lap.

STEP 3

Instruction for Penetration

The woman starts off penetration by moving downward onto his lap, until the man’s penis penetrates her vagina.

STEP 4

Instruction for Movement

After achieving penetration, the woman closes around the man’s penis through her vaginal muscles in repeated, slow circles, until the man’s penis is buried inside her.

TIPS

• The man’s hands are free, so he can initiate full frontal contact.  He may rub, pinch, or kiss his partner’s chests, nipples, lips, hands, or any combination of those.
• The woman’s clitoris is within the man’s reach, so he may stimulate it as well. Since both participants’ range of movement, from thrusting, rocking, or even circling, is restricted, the primary erogenous zones play key roles to heighten both partners’ pleasures.  Thus, the man and the woman may use their mouths and hands to lick, kiss, suck, nip, tough, and rub each other’s exposed areas, guaranteeing a more sensual experience for both.
• Due to the restrictive nature of the position for its male participant, it is highly recommended for men with premature ejaculation tendencies.  This is because the incidence of the man climaxing earlier than the woman may be avoided by reduced genital contact and movement in this position.

MAGPIE USING LIBERATOR SHAPES

The monkey sex position is best performed by lovers who are adventurous venturesome. The position is distinctive yet pleasurably relaxing all at once.

STEP 1

Woman’s Position

In this position, both the man and woman will contribute the same amount of action to make the sexual position satisfying.

STEP 2

Man’s Position

Contrary to the general sex positions, the man will first lie on his back on the monkey position. After lying down, the man needs to raise his entire legs in the air. His elevated thighs and bum will serve as the platform for his partner. The man will then clutch his penis and coax it to be harder and stronger. The hard penis pointing upward will be the vessel for the woman’s pleasurable ride.

STEP 3

Instruction for Penetration

The woman will mirror the direction of her lover. The woman will get support to the platform provided by the man. She will then slowly lower herself to the waiting penis of the man. The fully erect penis will deeply penetrate the velvety softness of the woman’s private area.

STEP 4

Instruction for Movement

The woman will take the initial task to simultaneously lower and higher herself to the pulsating penis. The movement will bring immense satisfaction for both man and woman.

TIPS

• The man can continue grabbing and directing his penis to the woman’s private hole to intensify the pleasure of the monkey position. A fully lubricated penis can help increase the sexual pleasure of the lovers. For additional stimulation, the woman can massage the thighs of her lover. The monkey position is best performed in beds or any other flat surfaces.

WARNINGS

• Like monkeys who, lovers should be flexible enough to perform the monkey sex position with ease.

The nail is a good option for a sexual experiment. Its acrobatic element is exciting, but a bit too tiring for the woman. The man is in full control here and will have to assist his partner in achieving a good balancing act.

STEP 1

Woman’s Position

The woman will lie on her back on a stable surface in anticipation for the next few minutes of stimulation and arousal.

STEP 2

Man’s Position

Man stands up above the woman with his legs wide open. One of his legs will be placed in between her legs and the other next to her shoulder.

STEP 3

Instruction for Penetration

Woman will raise her lower body through bent knees. Her hands will support her lower back as the elbows are bent resting on her sides. Man grabs her buttocks and penetrates her sideways. At this point the woman’s legs are vertical with the help of the man.

STEP 4

Instruction for Movement

The man can control the speed and the depth and angle of penetration. The man who is in a more balanced and stable position assists the acrobatic position of his partner.

TIPS

• Penetrating sideways can give strange, new sensations to both. This position is best used as part of the foreplay before any other intense positions.

WARNING

• The woman is in an awkward position with her legs in the air. Her neck and shoulders support her arms, which support her lower back. This could make her tire fast because she is carrying her own weight and at the same time getting some big blows from her partner. The added force can cause her to feel much pressure.